Monday, April 1, 2013

Our WIL Community and Child Development Center (what it looks like March 2013) and our plans for the future.

In January of this year the WIL Team finally felt confident that we were able to move forward and achieve our next goal: opening up a community center. The community center is a place to hold our women empowerment groups as well as provide a safe place for single mothers and widows to bring their children while they are at work.  We will operate as a daycare as well as a child development center. We have space for all of our programs to run from the same place!
 The center is a very large 5 bedroom  house with a large front room, dining room, kitchen, large panty, 2 full bathrooms and a one car garage. The house is on a good size plot and has a front and back porch spaces. There are also 5 rooms on the outside of the house that will be used for vocational training, a WIL Community Library, WIL Gift Shop where women can sell their items, preschool classroom and a room for storage. There is also a lot of outdoor space for a play ground, community garden and sensory play area for the children. 

Since moving into the community center WIL Running costs have gone up significantly but we knew this would happen and it needed to happen for us to help as many women and children as possible. We now employ 8 staff (including 4 tailors) that run the day to day activities at the community center.  Reuben and Rehema are the on-sight directors. They live at the center and oversee all the programs alongside myself. They also teach all the adult educational classes, women empowerment classes, a few of the vocational classes, and help out with the kids. Agnes cooks, cleans and when she isn't very busy she enjoys playing with the babies. Mayassa is our bib (grandmother) and amazing nanny. Our staff all work so well together and we could not do it without every single one of them!

I, the director and founder, do not receive any salary. I run the center and fundraising as a volunteer so that all the money is going directly to the people who need it the most.

In order for us to continue our work we need monthly sponsors. Our running costs are at $1,100 per month with 9 children and 15 women. This includes rent, electricity, water, salary, diapers and wipes, food, clean water, security, gas, charcoal, and basic maintenance.
When you become a monthly sponsor your receive quartly reports and a WIL calendar.
Please choose how much you would like to donate by using the drop down menu and click on the subscribe button. This will take you to paypal and you can enroll in automatic monthly donations. You can be a monthly sponsor for as little as $15 per month!
Thank you for your support!

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Here are some pictures of the center when we first moved in:


Left:The front room that will be an indoor area for the children to play in, hold classes and take naps.
 Right: Some friends of WIL helping us clean up the house when we first moved in.
Rehema teaching our first English class
in the new center

Master bedroom
Master bedroom storage


Master bathroom
Extra (3 identical) room storage
Second bathroom with
separate toilet, shower and sink
and storage areas.
Extra Room








Front Room

Dining room that will be used as a changing station. We
hope to be able to build at least 2 changing tables in
the near future.

Our very large kitchen. We only have a stove top in the kitchen
and have plans to build an outdoor stove oven to cook
breads and cakes in.


We have a very large pantry that will hopefully be full
of food for the kids at the center as well as children that will be participating in
our food program.

Our outdoor wash area where we currently hand wash all the laundry
and diapers. We are hoping to raise enough money for a washing machine
to make sure our Nannies are focusing on the children and are not
overwhelmed with laundry all day.

Our back porch

Front of the Center

A view from the driveway of the front yard

We have 5 outdoors rooms that will be converted into a WIL Library,
vocational training rooms, preschool room and a WIL Gift shop where
women can sell their handmade items. We will need to raise $1500 to finish these rooms
before we can start any of the outside projects.

Inside of one of the rooms.

This is our side yard. I would like to convert this into a sensory play area with a small pool, sandbox
etc. 

We have matoke (like plantains) banana and papaya trees sprinkled
throughout the property.

Future sensory development area

Front of the center

Future site of our play ground. We would like to build a playground
for the daycare children as well as the children in the community.

This is where our community garden will be planted.
We have a group of community members who will plant
and take care of the vegetable we plant here and will then
be able to take them home to eat or sell.

We have a large variety of beautiful flowering bushes and trees 

Parking area and front gate

This will be a parking area for visitors 

Our garage that will be for the tailors in the tailoring program.

Our front room.


Since moving into the community center WIL Running costs have gone up significantly but we knew this would happen and it needed to happen for us to help as many women and children as possible. We now employ 8 staff (including 4 tailors) that run the day to day activities at the community center.  Reuben and Rehema are the on-sight directors. They live at the center and oversee all the programs alongside myself. They also teach all the adult educational classes, women empowerment classes, a few of the vocational classes, and help out with the kids. Agnes cooks, cleans and when she isn't very busy she enjoys playing with the babies. Mayassa is our bib (grandmother) and amazing nanny. Our staff all work so well together and we could not do it without every single one of them!

I, the director and founder, do not receive any salary. I run the center and fundraising as a volunteer so that all the money is going directly to the people who need it the most.

In order for us to continue our work we need monthly sponsors. Our running costs are at $1,100 per month with 9 children and 15 women. This includes rent, electricity, water, salary, diapers and wipes, food, clean water, security, gas, charcoal, and basic maintenance.
When you become a monthly sponsor your receive quartly reports and a WIL calendar.
Please choose how much you would like to donate by using the drop down menu and click on the subscribe button. This will take you to paypal and you can enroll in automatic monthly donations.
Thank you for your support!


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Enjoy some pictures of our kids! If you are interested in sponsoring child please cheek out our Sponsor a Child tab at the top left hand side of the page.








































Thursday, March 28, 2013

Our inspiration for the WIL Community and Child Development Center



When my husband and I first arrived in Tanzania ,February 2012, I knew that I wanted to open a children's home. I started working as a preschool teacher at a baby orphanage and volunteered at several others in Arusha. Day after day I would go to work and I would meet the families of the children that were living at the orphanages. I witnessed babies being left while the families were crying and heartbroken over the decisions they had to make. A decision they had to make because no one was helping them to keep the children in their homes. Most of the orphanages only have the funding to take care of the babies and can do little to help support the families that want to keep their children or an orphaned child. I did not want to contribute to this generation of Tanzanians that are growing up in the orphanages, without a family. I decided I did not want Walk In Love to do what everyone else was doing but I wanted us to focus on keeping the children in their homes and communities. Every child deserves the love of a family.
Here is a piece that I wrote on June 26, 2012.  I called it "Finding Inspiration":

Ibrahim is a beautiful little baby with the face of a beautiful old man. He has dark skin, dark eyes and barely any hair. When he laughs the world is a better place. Ibra came to the baby home when he was one month old. His mother died shortly after his birth and his father is unknown. His family did not want to give him up but they knew that they could not support him. They had to make a decision: keep Ibra and he would more than likely die or give him up and he would live. The staff told me that when Ibra was dropped off there was not a dry eye in the place. His family was holding him so tightly that everyone could feel how much this baby was truly loved.

On Monday morning I arrived at the baby orphanage and met our newest addition, Patricia. She is three months old but looks like a tiny new born. She has mocha skin,big light brown eyes and lots of curly hair. Her mother had dropped her off over the weekend because she was no longer producing milk. She didn't want to leave her but she knew that Patricia was already too small and malnourished. There was nothing the mother could do to help her only child anymore. The mother herself was starving and could not feed her daughter.

I do not know this boys name but I will call him Isaac. This is a story that I cannot tell without getting choked up. I have told many people and every time I want to burst into tears. I met Isaac at the SOS Childrens Home. We were taking our older children to live there until they are 18. We can only keep children until 2 or 3 then they go to bigger homes. SOS is a beautiful place and I am happy that our children were able to get in. While we were settling our children in there was another boy there with is mother. I would guess he was around 10 years old. He never spoke and neither did his mother. They just sat with the saddest expressions on their faces. After about 30 minutes Isaac and his mother were in one of the back rooms. All of a sudden I heard a blood curdling scream and the mother went running out the front door. I could feel the tears welling up in my eyes as I can right now. This experience will forever be with me and haunt me.

These three children and the circumstances that they and there families are in have moved me. I now know what direction to take Walk In Love. I want to help keep families together. Mothers and fathers love their children the same in the USA as they do in Tanzania as they do all over the world. The difference is that I/we, in the USA, would never have to give our children up that we love and want because if they stayed with us or our families they would die. I cannot imagine having to make that decision but I know which one I would choose and I know you do to. I know that if I could not take care of my children then my parents would and if they could not then my aunts/uncles would and if they could not then my cousins would. These are not options here. I would like to give parents and families the option to keep their children and loved ones. 

All of this had led us to opening up our first WIL Community and Child Development Center. Its a place where we will hold women empowerment groups, vocational training, adult education classes, tutoring for school children, 2 meals per day to the neediest of families, a daycare and child development center that will be safe place for children to go during the day while their parents or guardians are working, clean clothing for children and adults,a community garden, a shop to sell handmade items, a community library and a place where the community can come together and discuss their day to day struggles. 

Monthly sponsorship is crucial to the success of our community center. If you would like to join our WIL team as a monthly sponsor please use the drop down menu to chose the amount you would like to donate and click on the "Subscribe" button. To make a one time donation please us the donate button. Both buttons are located on the bottom of this page.

You can also check out our Sponsor a Child tab to meet our children and see if you would like to be a sponsor and change a child's life!

Thank you so much for your continued support from all of us at WIL!!




I will be giving a "tour" of our community center in the next blog entry.



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